It's been told that kids and drunk people say the true.
Well it's hard for us to tell people we love and care the real deal of the other people.
As once my father told me I already been there done that. Trust me in this one o.k.
They don't say those things just because they want our failure. NO they care so much for us that they want a different path in our life.
Try to understand the reason they are warning you, try to understand the true behind those words and mind.